Reflections on Interfaith Dialogue–Shahid Ahmad

As I reflect on this semester with the Interfaith Fellows Program, I realize how much it has shaped my understanding of religion and my relationship with my faith within a community and world context. Entering the program, I came with a curiosity about other faiths and a desire to find commonality between different perspectives. I did not anticipate the depth of introspection this process would spark—forcing me to think critically about my identity as a Muslim, the meaning of interfaith dialogue, and the importance of shared action for a better world. 

Growing up, Islam was a deeply personal part of my life, one anchored in values like compassion, justice, and service to others. The Hadith I shared earlier in the program— “The best of people are those who are most beneficial to others”—is a core principle I try to stay true to. Discussing core principles with my peers who are members of other religions, allows me to reflect on other experiences. I also get insight into how similar many core values are between faiths. 

Some of the most meaningful aspects of this program have been those discussions with my peers. Sitting in a room where people freely shared their stories, struggles, and questions about faith, I was struck by how much we have in common. My peers offered insights that challenged me, comforted me, and often left me reflecting long after the conversation ended. At the same time, I felt grateful to contribute my perspective as a Muslim, but also as a person who has become more independent from my Muslim faith. Whether it was explaining an Islamic principle or sharing a personal story about how my faith shapes my values, these conversations were as much about listening as they were about sharing my own story. 

At times, I offered my own perspective as a Muslim, explaining how my faith guides me or sharing firsthand experiences. I appreciated the space to do so without feeling like I had to “represent” Islam in its entirety—something that often feels like a heavy responsibility. This is especially pertinent because I do not always feel like a perfect Muslim myself. There are times when I do not feel particularly religious or connected in the ways that some might expect, which makes me hesitant to speak on behalf of the entire faith. 

In those interfaith exchanges, it felt like an opportunity to simply share my experiences rather than to be held up as a model of Islamic practice. This shift in perspective helped me realize that interfaith dialogue is not about proving something or defending a religion—it is about understanding and respecting where others are coming from, regardless of how well I embody my own faith. 

I also learned a lot just by observing the minor differences in how people practice their faith. Whether it was hearing about specific traditions, prayers, or rituals, I was struck by the intention behind these acts and how they connect people to something greater than themselves. It gave me a chance to reflect on the rituals I practice as a Muslim—prayer, fasting, or acts of service—and consider how they connect me to my values and community. 

Having the opportunity to reflect on my faith alongside peers from diverse spiritual, cultural, and ethnic backgrounds has been a deeply enriching experience. Immersing myself in such a variety of perspectives has not only broadened my understanding of others but also encouraged me to explore my own beliefs with greater honesty and openness. It has been a privilege to hear the vibrant and personal stories shared throughout our time together and to witness the vulnerability and trust that shaped our conversations at the Center for Interfaith Dialogue. These moments of connection have reminded me of the beauty in dialogue, where understanding grows not from agreement, but from the willingness to listen, share, and learn from one another.